The Qingming small holiday is over. Many mothers have to fight with the baby on the road to the kindergarten. Looking at the little expression of the child’s return from the kindergarten, can you not help but ask, “Baby, is it bullied? "" "Good performance today"... In fact, such expressions will cause certain negative hints to children, which is not conducive to children's adaptation to kindergarten life.
1. Don't ask: Is there someone bullying you in kindergarten?
Parents are always worried that their children are being bullied. They often ask, “Is there anyone bullying you in kindergarten today?â€
Warm Tips: The word "bullying" puts the child and other children in a position of opposition. Children have just entered kindergarten, and because of the lack of experience in dealing with children of the same age, conflicts often occur. There will be some break-up between the children, there will be disputes, but there will be no vengeance, or give the children space, let them solve it themselves!
2. Don't ask: Are you crying today?
When the child was sent to kindergarten, the child was crying badly. "Hey heart" put the child in the kindergarten and returned home. The parents couldn't help but ask, "Is it crying today?"
Warm Tips: Before entering the park, children are unfamiliar with the collective life, so the children will resist by crying and other means. But in fact, after the parents left, the babies performed very well. The rich group activities occupied the children's attention and gradually helped the children adapt to separation anxiety. When my mother asked, “Cry today?â€, the child will immediately show grievances and even cry. Mother's words are a kind of psychological suggestion, suggesting that "as long as the crying mother will be soft", so the child is even more reluctant to go to kindergarten. Therefore, parents must face positive and positive at this time, and can praise the children: "I only cried for a little while today, my mother believes that you will be better tomorrow!"
3. Don't ask: Did the teacher criticize you?
The babies who have just entered kindergarten are still not suitable. They often have wronged performances. Children will not express themselves. Parents often have various speculations. They naturally want to ask, "Does the teacher criticize you?"
Warm Tips: For the newly established collective environment, there are new rules, teachers will help children complete routine training on the basis of children's adaptation. Parents ask the child, “Does the teacher criticize you?â€, it is easy to become an excuse for children’s various things, or to make children have a burden, lack of self-confidence, should encourage children to communicate with teachers, and as a parent, one is to do An enthusiastic listener.
4. Don't ask: Are you doing well today?
When the child just entered the park, the parents were very curious about the child's life in the kindergarten. At the same time, they worried that the child was naughty. They always like to ask the child. “Is it good in kindergarten today?†“Is it not?â€
Warm Tips: Often parents ask such questions more general, children do not know how to answer. They also don't know how to measure their performance. The answer to parents often is “good performance†and “乖â€. Parents can care more about the child “Is it happy in kindergarten today?†“What makes you happy?â€, in order to give the child a positive and specific guidance.
5. Don't ask: Is there a kid who grabs your toy?
"Is there a kid who grabs your toy?" It is also a question that moms and dads often ask about baby.
Warm Tips: When a child just enters the park, he is unfamiliar to teachers and children. It takes a certain amount of time to realize becoming a friend. Every child's growth environment and personality are different. Parents should help their children to meet new friends and new partners. You may want to change your way of asking questions: “Do you know a few new friends today?†or share with your child. The fun of getting off work, let the children gradually form a concept for good friends, and look forward to the life of the kindergarten.
6. Don't ask: What did you learn in kindergarten today?
When parents pick up their children, they are always willing to ask their children, “What have you learned in kindergarten today?†“Does the teacher ask you to answer the question?†“Do you learn the songs that the teacher taught today?â€
Warm Tips: Such a small child, it is too difficult to answer this question clearly! Don't challenge your child's language organization ability, don't put pressure on the child, so that the child is not tired of learning.
7. Don't ask: Does the teacher like you? Did the teacher praise you today?
When the child just goes to kindergarten, the parents will not only worry about how the child will adapt, but also worry about whether the teacher likes his or her own child. He often uses the child's mouth to find out if the teacher likes his or her child.
Warm Tips: Children who have just entered kindergarten still don't understand the concept of "like", but how to distinguish it? This is actually a parent’s distrust of the teacher. Kindergarten teachers will take care of every child seriously, and parents should give full confidence to give their children a full sense of security.
8. Don't ask: What kind of food are you eating in kindergarten? Are you full?
When the child just started kindergarten, parents and kindergartens have not established a good relationship of trust. At the same time, they worry that their children will be accompanied by their family members and have no good independent eating ability. They will often ask the children, “Are you full in kindergarten?â€
Warm Tips: When a child just enters the park, the mood is definitely not good, which will affect the appetite. The teacher will gradually help the child to be independent, adapt to the new collective life, and carefully observe the child, and will help the child to eat properly. Parents do not have to worry about the child not eating enough.
9. Don't ask: Do you like to go to kindergarten?
When a child goes to kindergarten, the anxiety of the parents is often not lower than that of the child. When the child just enters the kindergarten, the parents are anxious to ask the child "Do you like kindergarten?"
Warm Tips: When the child just started school, most of the school’s emotions are hostile. If the baby’s answer is negative for these questions, it will definitely affect his school mood. We can give our children more knowledge of the kindergarten and help them to accept and adapt to kindergarten life.
10. Don't ask: Which teacher do you like? Which teacher took you to play?
When the child goes to kindergarten, Mom and Dad put the child into an unfamiliar environment for the first time. Without the care of the family, the most worrying thing is the relationship between the child and the teacher. Whether the child likes the teacher and has an attachment relationship with the teacher.
Warm Tips: When the child just entered the park, because the children and things in the kindergarten replaced their family members, the child had a disgusted feeling about all the things in the kindergarten. If the parent has always emphasized which teacher she likes, it implies that she wants to be more with the teacher she likes, and the child is not willing to contact other teachers.
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