Education is everywhere, and it will be clear tomorrow. What are the things that parents can do with their children and are educational?
Sacrifice activities are also a kind of grateful education
Qingming worship ancestors, its connotation is filial piety culture. Sending thoughts and respects to the deceased relatives and ancestors, and providing them with a cultural environment to understand the filial piety, let them know how to be grateful.
Or parents can take the children to sweep the tomb of the martyrs, present a bunch of flowers, tell the children about the heroes of the martyrs, and create a chance to see the ears. Let them proudly say that I know the story of Lei Feng, the story of Dong Cunrui, know the story of Liu Hulan, and confidently tell the story of the hero to the smaller children.
Of course, the child is still young and the level of cognition is very limited. For example, some children even said that they did not eat when they were snoring, why not eat chocolate. Children are naive, parents can't smile, and they must be consciously guided. Parents should not think that the child is still young and it is useless to say anything to him. This kind of deafness can't be missed. Maybe it's just a white chrysanthemum, a beggar, but in this kind of atmosphere, the child can feel our respect and admiration for the ancestors.
Going green with your child and getting close to nature
Before and after the Ching Ming Festival, it is also a good time to go green. You can take your children into the idyllic villages near the mountains, bathe in the fresh and beautiful natural scenery, and feel the spring of charm. The children can also run in the fields and let go.
Most importantly, through this close contact with nature, you can enhance your child's sense of facial features. Mom and Dad can use the natural color provided by nature as a teaching material to tell children about the characteristics of various colors, so that children can increase their understanding and understanding of color; they can let their children close their eyes to listen to the sound of the wind, the sound of pines or the sound of birds singing, training Children's hearing ability and ability to distinguish sounds; children can also play with water in the creek, play in the flowers, fly kites in the square... Through these activities, children are often infinitely curious.
Play traditional games with kids
Children love games, but traditional games are ignored compared to games in electronics. In fact, traditional games, such as flying a kite, not only allow children to understand the customs of the Ching Ming Festival, but also to keep fit. When flying a kite, the child can look at the kite in a variety of ways, help to regulate the eye muscles and nerves, eliminate eye fatigue, and achieve the purpose of protecting and enhancing vision.
Swinging is also a traditional activity in the Ching Ming Festival. The ancient swing was very simple. Use the tree lychee as a shelf, and then put on the ribbon is a swing. On the Ching Ming Festival, Mom and Dad can make a simple swing for the children and bring them when they go out. Swinging can not only improve health, but also foster courage.
Bring flowers and grow grass with children
Taking the Ching Ming Festival, parents can take their children to the fields to plant flowers and grass, and the children will strengthen their understanding of nature in the process of participating in planting and caring for small life such as flowers and plants.
If Mom and Dad can educate their children to love trees, flowers and insects like friends, the child's love for life and nature will be strengthened and rooted in the heart, and form a feeling of mutual sympathy and responsibility. Under the control of this kind of emotion and responsibility, the child will gradually integrate with nature to better find the meaning of life.
Talk to your child about life topics
When commemorating a loved one or an ancestor, the child may ask about the topic of death. At this time, Mom and Dad do not deliberately avoid such a topic, and can properly talk to the child according to their age and ability.
Psychological research has found that children's understanding of death is divided into three periods: 3-5 years old children feel that death is like a sleep or travel, is a reversible process; children aged 5-9 have been able to accept the concept of death, But I don't know that death will happen to everyone or to myself; and children over the age of 9 already know that death cannot be avoided, or even happen to them. Therefore, when talking to children about the topic of life education such as death, pay special attention to the child's age and psychological characteristics.
In addition, you can start with the picture book and explain the meaning of "life" and "death" to the child from different angles. Let the children learn to cherish life and cherish the world.
Suzhou Longliqi Imp.&Exp. Co.,Ltd , https://www.longliqiexp.com